You Don't Need Goals To Be Successful!

Even if you don';t have goal written down on paper ..can you explain what you want and why you want it to people ..

because i am constantly growing and changing my long term goals shift ..

that is part of why trying to build a career out of something you are passionate about now ..may lead to folly .. if you have to stop and think well what am i passionate about

anyway my goals where ..to find what i want to do to make money that i enjoy .. then find a woman to spend my life with ..

well i was on vacation on the other side of the world a year and a half ago and found my little gold digger .. i mean the woman of my dreams .. now never actually got alone with her to have any thing happen but she focused on me .. in any case .. i have spent a good chunk of the last year and a half trying to get her to understand the reality .. of my financial status ..

but my young fiance has never picked up a goal setting book.. a book on the law of attraction..or heard one motivational speaker ..and currently she is living in a small house with concret block walls and a sheet metal ceiling.. she was sleeping on the floor untill i sent enough money to get her a mattress ..

now this is the living arrangment for 4 billion or more people on this planet probably 5-6 billion ..

anyway this woman..has bi polar disorder not diagnosed .. chrones disease .. and she is not eating correctly .. but with all that is wrong with her reality ..

she has no trouble telling me a an ever growing list of things she wants ..and she knows exactally whe she wants them ..

this is my womans goal expression statement ..

Dear (thats me) it's a long walk to the store its hot and it makes my legs hurt..i amagine i have motor scooter ..

Dear I i am bored i really want a tv ..but it only has 3 channels so i also want cabble ( she got that )

Dear I don't like sleeping on the floor it make my back hurt i want matress ( she got that )

Dear I want to tranfer to apartement with my mom and dad i don't like living here ..and i need bathroom to take baths in ..( ill have the money for the move the next week or two

then she will get a fan .. or a couple fans ..

anyway .. for me .. i will be successfull .. when i have a way to earn money that i enjoy doing..and have this woman or a woman like her .. and i'm very much invested in this one ..

here is wj=here we go into dopamine . when beside me ..she tells me what she wants .. i make the money.. or find a way to get what she wants.. she is happy i am happy..

and she has an almost endless list of things she wants .. which are slowing inching up in price ... ugh .. ever growing ..list ..

so i find that im copying her method of goal setting ...

expressing the reality .. of how things are .. then what you do not like about it .. then openly expressing and visualizing a better thing ..then continually filling in the image of the thing you want ..

and anytime you are in a situation where you are saying .. this situation really sucks .. complete the process ..with the here is why it suck.. and the it would be much better if ..or or i imagine this better thing ..

then if you hit a wall ..where it's most likly that that will not happen ..then you go right now there is nothing i can do about it and no point in bitching ..